What Can an Escort Teach You?
Find out what an escort can teach you. From bedroom skills to emotional connection, explore the surprising lessons escorts offer clients.
Read MoreTo create lasting memories from such intimate moments, you will need variety and excitement. Regardless if you are a veteran, exploring, or even a combination of the two, bringing these types of accessories to your time with an escort unlocks a whole new level of pleasure, connection, and satisfaction.
In a world where personal pleasure is becoming increasingly tied to wellness and confidence, sex toys have moved up—from the dustbin of our sexual culture to the bedside tables of our homes, from the south side of a truck stop to the wardrobe of the (online) characters depicted in sex toy commercials.
Let’s get down to business, learn everything there is to know about toys, and learn how to blow your escort experience out of the water.
Sexy toys have always been for more than solo or couple play—they add a fun, sexy new layer to your rendezvous with an escort, especially with a lively, adventurous partner with an open mind. Nowadays many of you escorts are skilled with sex toys, and queens can provide a toy-friendly experience with prior notice.
For the shy, the hesitant, and the timid (or the plain old first-timers), toys can add a fun, relieving element to ease into the intimate. You might want to begin with a feather tickler or a vibrating massager to help you both relax.
Whether a bullet vibe, cock ring, or anal plug, toys are strategically designed to target sensitive areas with unparalleled intensity. Escorts know how to wield them effectively—and most relish helping clients through the paces.
They invited exploration.
Toys give you the ability to try out new things with your body and to fantasize in new ways. They’re the key to unlocking realms of pleasure that extend beyond the basic foreplay-into-intercourse routine.
They Spice Up the session.
Let’s be honest—routine is the worst. Sex toys bring variety, novelty, and a sense of adventure—even with quickies. Several Call Girl clients claimed that the product extended the sense of solace and adventure they felt during their time together.
Let’s dig deeper into why using sex toys can be one of the best choices you make on your next booking with an escort:
Better Orgasms: Sex toys are designed to zoom in on your most sensitive spots—including the clitoris, prostate, nipples, and penis. The result? You can experience stronger, faster, and multiple orgasms even while using the toy simultaneously with your partner.
Boosted Confidence: Successfully engaging in that activity reassures you, making you calmer and less anxious because you have taken charge, which also makes you more open to trying new things.
Longer-Lasting Sessions: Toys such as a delay ring or a vibrator can be so useful for slowing things down so you have an opportunity to enjoy your pleasure, rather than being on an express to cum town.
Exploration of Fantasies: Have you ever fantasized about dabbling in a little BDSM? Interested in pegging or prostate play? Most escorts provide fantasy services, and toys make those services seem real and immersive.
Here are some of the most popular types of sex toys to try with an escort.
Do you know where to start? Below we’ve put together a short list of beginner-friendly and advanced toys to experiment with your escort companion.
Great for foreplay or GFE. These vibrators, small, subtle, and strong, can enhance your partner's experience or provide additional stimulation during penetration.
These fit around the base of the penis and help keep an erection longer, as well as assist in delaying ejaculation and make orgasm stronger. Some are even equipped with vibrating attachments for increased pleasure during sex.
If you’re too shy or just want to try everything up to full-blown, realistic-feeling toys, it can be a completely mutual treat with the aid of your escort.
A dildo and strap-on set is a fantastic sex toy for those who are interested in the idea of prostate stimulation or pegging. Most of the housewife escorts are willing to try this form of play in a safe, nonjudgmental environment.
Anal toys are a fun and exciting way to broaden your sexual horizons. Lube up and start slow.
These items are excellent for initiating sensory play. An increase in one sense (touch, for example) heightens sensitivity across the board. These are the items that escorts frequently rely on for some extra-teasing foreplay.
Ideal for full-body massage and pre-intimacy use. They can also be used to relieve stress and increase arousal.
Toys can be wonderful, but as with all things in the bedroom, communication, cleanliness, and consent are paramount. Here’s how to ensure that both you and the escort have a pleasurable and respectful experience:
Ask in advance.
Not all female escorts will accept the use of toys. Tell your escort when booking that you plan to bring or have sex toys available. Some might even have their own stash!
Start Slow
“If you’re just starting using toys, don’t leap straight to something hardcore. Begin with simple vibrators, rings, or stimulator toys, and check out how your body reacts.
Prioritize Cleanliness
It may also be advantageous to use toys that are washed, sterilized, and body-safe. Bring your own if possible. Silicone, ABS plastic, and stainless steel are safer than jelly or rubber.
Use Lube Generously.
LUBE Especially with anal or dildo play, lube is your best friend. (If you have a glass dildo, you can use water-based as well as silicone-based lube if you cover the toy with a condom.)
Keep Consent going.
Even with an escort, periodically check in with your partner to see how comfortable they are with the session. Use questions like, Is this okay? or Want a change of pace?
Stay Open-Minded
You don’t need to test them all at once. The point is to try, learn, and have fun, not to show off. Read your body and the rhythm of battle.
Most of the escorts are professionals who know how to make a safe, fun, and comfortable space for their clients. Here’s how they’ll uplevel your toy play:
Guidance: Escorts may show you how to use toys you’ve never used before.
Comfort: These products allow someone to express fantasy without psychologically taking a hit.
Participation: They may use toys on you or vice versa, as you agree.
Exploration: They tend to be open to fantasy sessions involving certain props or roleplay toys (restraints, costumes).
Want the best toys? Here are a few places:
Online Stores:
They provide discreet shipping and have a giant selection of products for beginners to experienced users.
Let’s clear the air about some common misunderstandings:
You’re mechanical if you rely on toys.
Reality: If anything, toys make it all the more human, as they allow you to find what really makes you feel good.
They only use toys if they have no partner.
Reality: Both couples and escorts use toys to enhance, but not replace, a sense of connection.
Escorts will judge me for bringing toys.
Reality: The women and men who work as professional escorts are nonjudgmental and tend to respect the clients who use their services for the correct reasons or a desire to experience exploration safely.
Sex toys aren’t just about spicing things up—they’re about deepening pleasure, building connection, and finding out what turns you on. If you want more than just "whip and cream," there are fancy sex toys to take your time with an escort to the next level.
Whether you prefer a sexy massage, a teasing game, or a bold fantasy, there’s a toy out there to bring you to that level. So the next time you call your local model escort to meet, make sure you carry the add-ons—you might end up as yourself.
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